Why An Online Course For Couples?

I’m excited to share the reason behind creating my new course focused on helping couples improve their relationships. Over time, I’ve seen how many loving couples struggle not because they don’t care about each other, but because they lack the tools to communicate effectively, resolve conflict in healthy ways, and truly feel understood. Relationships aren’t meant to be constant battles, yet so many couples feel stuck in patterns of miscommunication, frustration, or emotional distance. I…

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Managing Winter Blues & Stress

Welcome to February in North America! The excitement and hustle of the holidays is over, the winter doldrums have settled in, and Valentine’s Day is right around the corner. It can be a difficult time of year in Central Kentucky as the days remain short, the temperatures cold, and gray skies fade into gray asphalt. This month can certainly feel emotionally loaded, especially for those feeling lonely. Here’s the good news… the days are getting…

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Rethinking New Year’s Resolutions: A Healthier Approach

As we step into the new year, many of us feel that familiar pressure to reinvent ourselves. Lose weight. Exercise more. Be more productive. Get organized. The list goes on. While there's nothing wrong with wanting to improve our lives, the way we typically approach New Year's resolutions can actually set us up for failure and, ironically, harm our mental health in the process. If you've ever felt discouraged, guilty, or like a failure when…

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Covert Depression

When we think of depression, we often conjure up the image of a sad, tearful woman.  Depression  is commonly thought of as a “women’s issue,” but according to Terry Real,  psychotherapist and author on men’s mental health, relationships, and gender roles, male depression is America’s most under diagnosed disease.  He argues that millions of men are suffering from what he calls “covert depression”. This depression is masked by behaviors such as: rage, irritability, substance abuse, workaholism,…

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Tips for Managing Mental Health

As we head into February, the cumulative effect of short, cold and dreary days can take a toll on our mental health. Reduced amounts of sunlight can cause a decrease in serotonin, a neurotransmitter responsible for mood, sleep and energy, among other things. The drop in serotonin can lead to an increased risk of anxiety and depression.  Of course, the shorter days aren’t the only factor associated with depression — family history, stressful life events,…

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Six Keys to a Harmonious Relationship

What does it take to make a healthy and meaningful romantic relationship? It’s simple and difficult all at the same time. The average couple waits six years from the time trouble begins to the time they seek treatment. Sometimes, too much damage has been done. I often think, “I wish I could have gotten to them sooner.” So, what goes into making a harmonious relationship? I’ll share a few things that I’ve learned anecdotally as…

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How an Expert Predicts Divorce

Wouldn’t it be nice if you could divorce-proof your marriage – if you knew what to avoid in order to protect your relationship from becoming so unhealthy that it is no longer viable? Conflict in marriages is not only normal, but it can also be productive if we know how to navigate it – it alerts us something is wrong, so that we can address it. The outcome of the interaction depends on how we address it, however. Marriage researcher…

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The Four Horsemen

We’re over a year into this pandemic, which has heavily disrupted all of our lives in one form or another. The good news: We have a vaccine; it’s being distributed; and our positivity rate is decreasing. The bad news: This past year has taken a toll on our businesses, our mental health and our relationships. If COVID-19 has had a negative impact on your relationships, you’re not alone. The effects of the pandemic have amplified issues…

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The Art of the Apology

As we enter month nine of a global pandemic, a presidential election cycle, the nomination of a supreme court justice, racial strife, NTI (that’s non-traditional instruction for those of you fortunate enough to not have school age-children during this nightmare), let it be said that nerves are frayed, tensions are high and apologies may be in order. Many of us are not living our “best lives” right now; and with that said, it’s possible that perhaps…

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How Mindset Shifts Can Help Us Survive Quarantine Fatigue

As we enter month five of social distancing as a result of COVID-19, the side effects of the pandemic continue to affect us — even those who haven’t had firsthand exposure to the illness. If you’re experiencing anxiety, depression or quarantine fatigue, you’re not alone. Nothing increases anxiety more than uncertainty, and this virus has caused uncertainty at every turn. We still don’t know when a vaccine will be available. We don’t exactly know what school…

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