Testimonials

“Missy is truly one of the top therapists out there. I have seen a couple therapists before and it was not great experience. However, seeing Missy has literally been a lifesaver. I have been seeing her for 2 years and she has helped me with the most difficult days in my life. She has been by my side through my entire coming out process as gay. Missy never makes decisions for you, but instead helps you figure out how to navigate to get to the decision you need to make. She supports you, however she will tell you what you need to hear not always what you want to hear. If I had to list the people who care about me the most, I would have to put Missy at the top of that list. I don’t know where I would be without her in my life. I value her advice, coaching, and help more than anyone in this world. I am walking example of her coaching. She’s the best! I just honestly could not pay her enough. I highly recommend Missy to anyone that needs a safe place!”

– M.J.

“I learned about Missy from a friend at work who’d raved about Missy’s skills for both individual and marriage counseling.  When my husband and I were experiencing marriage difficulties, we connected with Missy.  We found her approach to improving our communication skills, as well as challenging each of us to address any assumptions, to be very helpful in strengthening our marriage.  When I was recently diagnosed with cancer, we were especially grateful to Missy because our improved communication has helped us navigate several tough issues.”

– E.S.

“I think Missy is brilliant. My wife and I started working with Missy after an extended period of progressively intense arguments, in each case, “resolving” the particular fight, but leaving an unease over the relationship.  We were no longer were connecting or intimate with each other. That scared me.  I knew then that we—at least I—needed help. After getting some recommendations and researching John Gottman’s empirical research as to marital relationships, my wife and I chose to work with Missy.  I wholeheartedly recommend that you do the same. I do so confidently because working with Missy, I have seen the range of people she can help.  In session, my wife and I have different styles.  I share, quickly process, then deflect with humor, and I occasionally get heated.  In contrast, my wife has difficulty sharing, and needs help describing and expressing her emotions—often needing time to emotionally process.  Despite this, Missy manages to juggle these very different styles in the same session, and suggest separate sessions when helpful. Missy meets you where you are and helps you do the work to connect with your spouse/significant other.”

– J.M.

“Missy came into my life when I needed her most!  She remains an important part of my well-being. I found Missy after a mid-life divorce. She was a support system as I learned how to navigate new, changing, and difficult relationships.  I was at a loss about who I was in these new circumstances. Missy helped me sort through all the emotions of anxiety and self doubt about my future. She gave me tools and methods to work through the hard moments. Missy can deliver a tough message in a kind way but I always know she is on my team. We have laughed and cried together along the journey. I would recommend Missy without hesitation!”

– M.E.

“My mom saw Missy’s article in the Chevy Chaser magazine and recommended I read it. After reading the article, I knew that Missy’s experience with John Gottman’s Method would help guide my husband and I to learn how to communicate more effectively. Working with Missy has shown me that I deserve to be loved, to feel loved and that having a partner willing to put the work in with me; physically, emotionally and mentally is not asking for too much. Missy has truly helped me during one of the hardest times in my adult life, I don’t know where I would be without her caring, professional, and honest guidance. Missy makes complicated things (in my brain), simple and straightforward. If a friend needed a marriage counselor or individual counselor, I would recommend Missy. She is non -judgmental, has experience and uses research based methods to help her clients. Looking at my calendar and knowing I will see Missy any given week, is like a weight has been lifted off my shoulders.”

– L.S.

“In my time working with Missy, I have been unpacking trauma that I have carried with me since childhood. Missy is helping me shed old roles and old narratives so that I may lean in fully to the kind of adult I want to be. Missy has given me new language to use and new perspectives to embrace. Missy is the consummate professional. She is an incredibly attentive listener. She’s thoughtful in her approach. Most importantly, she’s always met me right where I am, and she’s worked alongside me in my journey toward acceptance and peace. Missy is a highly engaged and attentive coach. She examines issues from all sides, and she’s quick to offer insights. She is not afraid to say the things that need to be said, but her approach is always calm, gentle and kind. 10 out of 10 times I would recommend working with Missy to my friends! She’s well-studied, well-practiced and eager to work with individuals and couples are ready to grow.”

– M.R.

“I needed help with a narcissistic partner, issues with how I was being treated and behaviors that came with him having a terminal illness. I researched therapists with training in narcissism.  I could and did go to other therapists that took my insurance and that did not work as well. I was ok with paying cash for someone who totally gets what my life was like. Missy really listens and when the appropriate moment arises for the client to be receptive is when she makes her recommendation, however long that takes.  I can definitely recommend her. Also, I had issues with family members, she understood their behaviors as well and helped me to understand how they think and operate and how I can best deal with those situations.  Missy ALWAYS makes time for an extra session during crisis situations.  She has helped me get through traumas with excellent recommendations.  Just having that extra support is very meaningful.  It helps me to know I am not alone.”

– M.B.